Love & Ceremony
How to Write a Father of the Groom Speech That Feels Personal and Proud
May
Being the father of the groom is a huge moment — and when it’s time to give your speech, you want to get it just right.
Whether you’re sentimental, funny, or straight to the point, this guide will help you write a father of the groom speech that feels real, heartfelt, and memorable — without sounding like it came off Google.
What Should a Father of the Groom Speech Include?
You don’t need to be a polished speaker to give a great toast. The best speeches are honest, warm, and sound like you. Here’s what to include:
- A welcome to guests
- A little story or memory about your son
- A few kind words for your new daughter- or son-in-law
- A hopeful message for their future
- A short, simple toast to finish
Sample Father of the Groom Speech Outline
1. Start With a Welcome
“Good evening everyone. I’m [Your Name], proud dad of the groom, and even prouder to be standing here today.”
2. Share a Story
Think of a short moment from your son’s life that shows who he is — loving, silly, hardworking, adventurous.
Example:
“I still remember teaching him how to ride a bike. He crashed straight into the mailbox. Got up, laughed, and tried again — that’s who he is.”
3. Speak About the Couple
Say something sincere about his partner and their relationship.
Example:
“[Partner’s Name], you’ve brought out something in him that even I hadn’t seen — a new level of calm and joy. Thank you for loving him the way you do.”
4. Wish Them Well
Offer a few simple words about love, commitment, and the journey ahead.
Example:
“Marriage isn’t always smooth sailing — but with teamwork, laughter, and a shared bottle of wine now and then, you’ll do just fine.”
5. End With a Toast
“Please raise your glasses to [Son’s Name] and [Partner’s Name] — may their love keep growing and their bond stay strong through every season.”
Quick Tips for a Confident Speech
- Keep it under 5 minutes
- Write it down and practice aloud
- Speak slowly — nerves make us rush
- Avoid inside jokes unless everyone gets it
- Speak from the heart, not a script
Need a Helping Hand?
If you’re still not sure where to begin, start by jotting down:
- One funny memory of your son
- One thing you admire about his partner
- One wish you have for them both
Final Thought
You don’t have to be a public speaker or poet. You just have to be Dad. And that, in itself, is more than enough.
